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Divorce & Family Law Articles, Tips & More for Men

Understanding Military Divorce: Key Differences Every Service Member Should Know

Divorce is never easy, but when one or both spouses are members of the military, the process becomes even more complex. While the fundamental legal framework for divorce—such as property division, child custody, and spousal support—still applies, military divorces involve additional rules, protections, and unique considerations that can significantly affect the outcome. Whether you’re stationed stateside or deployed overseas, understanding ...

By |March 10th, 2025|

Custody and Citizenship: Children Born to Government & Military Abroad

“Travel,” Mark Twain said, “is fatal to prejudice, bigotry, and narrow-mindedness.” If you or  your spouse were fortunate enough to be stationed abroad on an American military base or U.S. government installation, you got an opportunity very few Americans and Virginians get. You two were free to explore foreign countries, sample exotic foods, and perhaps fall under the romantic spell ...

By |March 3rd, 2025|

Dollars & Sense: 7 Smart Ways to Save Money on a Divorce

Researchers estimate that 40-50% of first marriages will end in divorce, and successive marriages have even less chance of survival. Divorce can be an emotionally and financially draining experience. While some marriages can be salvaged, there are times when divorce is the only viable option. The financial burden of divorce can be overwhelming, but with careful planning and informed decision-making, you ...

By |February 24th, 2025|

Military Family Care Plans and Custody in Virginia

The Magna Carta gave our founding fathers the phrase, “law of the land.” Virginia’s own James Madison apparently added the U.S. Constitution’s Article 6 flourish, “supreme law of the land.” That Supremacy Clause sets the hierarchy for all legal issues, including Virginia Circuit Court child custody orders and military Family Care Plans (FCPs). Jump to a Section Supremacy Rules What ...

By |February 17th, 2025|

Using The Grey Rock Method During Divorce and Beyond

Divorce and separation can be a whirlwind of emotions, difficult conversations, and potential conflict. For many men navigating this challenging journey, the emotional and psychological toll of dealing with an ex-partner can be devastating—especially when children are involved. Whether it’s seemingly constant drama, manipulation, or just plain hostile communication, dealing with your ex can be one of the hardest parts ...

By |February 10th, 2025|

How Parenting Schedules & Overnight Visits Affect Child Support

When you annoy a clock, it gets ticked off. Virginia parents know five minutes of listening to a seven-year-old tell jokes can feel like five hours. But time itself — minutes, hours, days — is at the center of child support calculations in the Commonwealth. Jump to a Section Shared Custody & Child Support Time for Number Crunching The 90 ...

By |February 3rd, 2025|

The Hidden Risks of Using a Cheap Family Lawyer

So, you want to find a cheap family lawyer. When facing family law matters—whether it's divorce, child custody disputes, or property division—it’s natural to want to minimize costs. After all, legal proceedings can feel beyond overwhelming, emotionally draining, and expensive. Opting for "cheap" solutions or cutting corners when dealing with family law issues can often lead to much bigger problems ...

By |January 27th, 2025|

Harmonious Co-parenting with a Disagreeable Ex

Oppugnant. It’s a fine word, though few people know it. Use it the next time you are dealing with a disagreeable ex-spouse. A disagreeable spouse seeks discord, antagonizes you, or is openly hostile to you and your co-parenting plans. Remind your divorced spouse that being discordant, contentious, hateful or just plain nasty — serves no good, not for you, not ...

By |January 20th, 2025|

What Legal Rights Do Men Have in Divorce?

Virginia law can be quirky and outdated. For example, Virginia Code § 18.2-365 (still on the books) says married people cannot have sex outside of marriage. It’s a Class 4 misdemeanor but it doesn’t stop Virginia swingers clubs from … uh … meeting. Virginia law is largely designed to be gender neutral. With family matters like divorce, men stand on ...

By |January 13th, 2025|
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