Family Law

How Does a Child from Another Relationship Affect Child Support?

What do Jason Mamoa, Terry Cruz, and Steven Spielberg have in common? They are all fathers in blended families. We need have no worries that their children and stepchildren are financially secure. But can we say the same for the typical Virginia blended family? How does a child from another relationship affect child support in Virginia? The Child’s Best Interests ...

By |July 6th, 2020|

Marriage Counseling 101: How to Prepare and What to Expect

“The thing that attracted me to my husband was his pride. I'll never forget the first time I saw him, standing up on a hill, his hair blowing in the breeze — and he too proud to run and get it.” If the comedy of Jean Carroll, America's first female stand-up comedian, sums up your marriage, you might be ready ...

By |June 29th, 2020|

We’re Swingers but Now She’s Doing it Without My Consent … Is it Adultery?

The phrase, "Put me in, Coach," takes on a whole new meaning when you visit a website like Poly-Coach. Do you need help learning your way around polyamory, swinging, or open marriage? Then Poly-Coach is for you! Many Virginians enjoy the staid predictability of the "one spouse/one sexual partner" rule. Many, however, pursue other passions: open relationships, polyamory, or swinging. What ...

By |June 15th, 2020|

Your Custody Trial as a Father: What to Expect

Just as Truman Capote dismissed Jack Kerouac's creativity by saying, "That's not writing, that's typing," some Virginia men can be dismissed as sperm donors, not fathers. But for the Virginia father who genuinely wants to fight for child custody, the process can be frightening. Much rides on every decision; entire futures are altered with each choice. Here is what to ...

By |June 8th, 2020|

Military Relocation and Your Family Law Matter

If you are a military man, you live and work at the whim of the military. Just as your children have almost no input into decisions that affect them, you have little input into decisions affecting you. You rise in rank and earn more pay; you are unlikely to say no to those decisions. You are relocated to a distant base; you have to ...

By |June 1st, 2020|

What’s the Significance of The Child Support Recovery Act of 1992?

The State of Franklin1 was a territory carved out of eastern Tennessee 236 years ago. Its founders intended it to be the nation's 14th state. Do we need to point out it does not now exist? Some Dads seem to think they can somehow disappear into non-existent states today, to escape child support payments. The harsh reality? The Child Support Recovery Act ...

By |May 25th, 2020|

Your Pendente Lite Hearing: What to Expect and How to Prepare

During divorce litigation, you can have a lot of time on your hands. One way to pass the time is to take up the dead language Latin. Pendente lite, for example, is not a brand of Virginia beer. It's Latin for "with the lawsuit pending," and it is a temporary agreement setting down rules about spousal support, child support, child custody, ...

By |May 18th, 2020|

DSS’s Family Engagement Services

"Be thankful we're not getting all the government we're paying for." Will Rogers said that. It's funny, it's a popular opinion even nine decades or so after he said it. Yet, it really does not reflect the hard work and many opportunities that come from government workers in municipal, state, and federal positions. Take Virginia's own Department of Social Services (DSS). Those ...

By |May 11th, 2020|

COVID-19 & Loss of Pay: What If I Can’t Pay My Spousal or Child Support?

The COVID-19 emergency that has gripped Virginia and the world has rippled through every part of our lives. If you pay either spousal support or child support in Virginia and have been affected by COVID-19, you should know about legal remedies that may help. Closed Courts The Virginia Supreme Court’s original judicial emergency order has been extended, keeping most courts ...

By |May 8th, 2020|
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