Children & Parenting

Your Pendente Lite Hearing: What to Expect and How to Prepare

During divorce litigation, you can have a lot of time on your hands. One way to pass the time is to take up the dead language Latin. Pendente lite, for example, is not a brand of Virginia beer. It's Latin for "with the lawsuit pending," and it is a temporary agreement setting down rules about spousal support, child support, child custody, ...

By |May 18th, 2020|

DSS’s Family Engagement Services

"Be thankful we're not getting all the government we're paying for." Will Rogers said that. It's funny, it's a popular opinion even nine decades or so after he said it. Yet, it really does not reflect the hard work and many opportunities that come from government workers in municipal, state, and federal positions. Take Virginia's own Department of Social Services (DSS). Those ...

By |May 11th, 2020|

COVID-19 & Loss of Pay: What If I Can’t Pay My Spousal or Child Support?

The COVID-19 emergency that has gripped Virginia and the world has rippled through every part of our lives. If you pay either spousal support or child support in Virginia and have been affected by COVID-19, you should know about legal remedies that may help. Closed Courts The Virginia Supreme Court’s original judicial emergency order has been extended, keeping most courts ...

By |May 8th, 2020|

Social Distancing and Parenting Time – Safe Activities and Guidelines

COVID-19 is a dread disease. Nobody — not Governor Northam, not your child’s teachers, not your family law attorney — wants you to catch this illness or worse, spread it to your own children. Here are some practical and possible ways to practice social distancing while still enjoying parenting time with your kids. Children Are Susceptible Let’s start by dispelling ...

By |May 8th, 2020|

My Ex is Quarantined with the Kids … Can I Still See Them?

COVID-19 has changed the pace, productivity and pleasures of daily life here in Virginia. As a non-custodial parent, you may be wondering how Governor Northam’s March 12 emergency order affects your rights to parenting time, child visitation, and maintaining a healthy family relationship. Stay at Home In addition to the COVID-19 emergency order, Governor Northam followed up with his Executive ...

By |May 7th, 2020|

How Does COVID-19 Affect Your Custody Arrangement?

Parents worry for their children. This is basic human instinct, and with the pandemic confronting every Virginian, every American, every citizen of earth, we worry even more. How will COVID-19 affect your children? How will your child custody, parenting time and visitation schedules change in this time of crisis? Scales of Justice Superseding the various statutes, laws, and court opinions ...

By |May 5th, 2020|

Navigating Your Virginia Family Law Matter During COVID-19

Much of the time on these pages, we take a bit of a sassy approach to family law matters. With the worldwide pandemic from COVID-19, we are setting aside our usual stand-up routine and standing up for you, Virginia’s men, as you attempt to deal with the Virginia courts. Here is what can and cannot be done in these perilous ...

By |May 5th, 2020|

I Caught Her Cheating. Will I Get Custody of the Kids?

Hamidou Diallo won the NBA's 2019 Slam Dunk Contest in an event that saw a Wright Brothers plane, some major air and some major attitude. His leap over Shaquille O’Neal brought down the house. When you catch the mother of your kids cheating, you might think your custody case is a slam dunk. Is it? Old World Morality Unfortunately for a Virginia ...

By |May 4th, 2020|

11 Great Reasons to Attend a Co-parenting Class

Some people say they are born to be great parents. Others have great parenting thrust upon them. You know, like when a court tells you, "Straight up, you and your ex (or the mother of your children) have to go to co-parenting classes." The Circuit Court in Virginia that orders this is, essentially, driving home the reality that Virginia always keeps ...

By |April 20th, 2020|
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