Divorce & Family Law Articles, Tips & More for Men

5 Kid-friendly Weekend Retreats in Virginia for Single Dads

They are life-sized and made with tremendous love (though not much talent). The dinosaurs of Dinosaur Land in White Post, Virginia date back to the 1960s and are a kid’s delight. Mixed among the prehistoric preponderance are a King Kong, a 70-foot purple octopus, and a shark you can walk into (and safely out of). Finding weekend retreats with your ...

By |February 6th, 2017|

Is Virginia a Common Law Marriage State?

“Falsehood flies, and the Truth comes limping after it,” said Jonathan Swift (he of Gulliver’s Travels fame). That 1710 saying has morphed into “A lie travels around the globe while the truth is putting on its shoes.” One perfect example: the idea that a state like Virginia has “common law marriage.” Virginia does not have this, despite what myths, legends, ...

By |February 3rd, 2017|

Stigmata Piñata: Beating the Stigma of Divorce

Bearing the stigmata of divorce—the social wounds, the odd looks, the strange pity taken on you by near strangers—may have you feeling like a birthday-worn piñata, but you can beat this (we mean, conquer it; perhaps "beat" was not the best word choice). We can help you find ways to turn those stigmata into charismata (personal charms). People > Institutions Our ...

By |February 1st, 2017|

Five Wild Ways a Miserable Marriage Could Get You Fired

This sounds like a joke, but what is the difference between David Petraeus and Christopher Kubasik? To find the answer, review the facts: Petraeus, then the director of the CIA, announced in 2012 that a) he was resigning his job because b) he was having an affair with his biographer. Kubasik, as reported in Forbes—same year, same month, same day—resigned ...

By |January 27th, 2017|

Establishment and Disestablishment of Paternity in Virginia: 5 Hard Facts

In matters of determining paternity—or ruling out paternity—hard facts are far superior to hysteria. Though paternity is an emotionally charged issue, the safety and well-being of a child is at stake. Thanks to the Code of Virginia and other state institutions, establishing or disestablishing paternity can follow a clear, legal path. Consider these five hard facts. Facts for the Child ...

By |January 25th, 2017|

Divorce & Taxes: Smart Tax Time Tips for Men

Everybody says only two things in life are certain; the ol’ D and T. But for some Virginia men, these are not Death and Taxes, but Divorce and … Taxes. Spoiler alert: it’s always taxes. Surprisingly, these two life events can be intertwined, and savvy divorced men can benefit from a few smart tax tips. Dollars for Divorce You should ...

By |January 23rd, 2017|

8 Brilliant Ways to Become the MacGyver of Fatherhood

Men of a certain age may aspire to be MacGyver. When he rolled out such improbable solutions as plugging a sulfuric acid leak with chocolate (sugar reacts with acid, forming carbon and a leak-stopping residue), couch heroes everywhere were wishing they had a paper clip and some gasoline so they, too, could perform amazing feats. Dads after divorce, desperate to ...

By |January 20th, 2017|

6 BS Facts About Divorce Everyone Thinks Are True

In recent months we’ve heard a lot about living in a “post-fact” America. False news, internet rumor and urban legends have run through our conversations and tainted our understanding of real events. This is also true with Virginia divorces. These six “facts” about divorce in Virginia are often confused with the truth; they are anything but. 1. Children Strengthen a ...

By |January 18th, 2017|

Runnin’ on Empty: How to Reduce Your Child Support Payments

Men of a certain age—or their sons—know Jackson Browne. Songwriter, performer, Browne has sold more than 18 million albums. He is, for us, a triple threat in the best possible way: he wrote one of our favorite songs (“Lawyers in Love”1), he has been divorced, and he's a guy. He also wrote the anthem for divorced Dads seeking modifications in ...

By |January 16th, 2017|
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