Family Law

What is a Typical Holiday Custody Schedule in Virginia?

Virginia is a typical American state, if you consider “typical” to include, according to Only In Your State1, the world's longest boardwalk (Virginia Beach), the world's record for being struck by lightning, and the world's biggest mandolin jam. Virginia is typically atypical, as are Virginia's Moms and Dads. Working out holiday custody schedules can start with “typical” and lead to ...

By |October 23rd, 2019|

Can Child Support Be Waived in Virginia?

The Gettysburg Address is 272 powerful words. Declaration of Independence? 1,337 words, without the 56 signers' autographs (1,458 with them). Our title for this piece? A scant seven words, but oh, so complex an issue! So many possible answers! Two Ways to Order Child Support In Virginia, child support is determined one of two ways: You and the child's mother ...

By |October 21st, 2019|

Marriage Advice from a Longtime Divorce Attorney

Very few people come to a divorce attorney seeking advice on preserving a marriage. Yet, when you think about it (and we think a lot about it), family law attorneys here in Virginia are actually experts at marriage. If anyone has a compendium of what not to do in a marriage, it is a divorce attorney. Apologize Which is more ...

By |October 16th, 2019|

4 Great Ways to Let Your Children Know You’re Proud of Them

We marvel that the list has only eight items, but website We Have Kids lists eight warning signs that you are a bad parent. You'd expect things like neglecting or abusing your kid, sure. But some are surprising, like "irresponsible financial behavior." We have personally witnessed hundreds of examples of bad parenting, often from visiting tourists on our Virginia Beach boardwalk. ...

By |October 14th, 2019|

Divorce & Stopping the Survivor Benefit Plan (SBP)

Divorce of any kind can be a gut-wrenching experience. Military divorces take the normal stress and amplify it, making military divorce more complicated and messier than civilian divorce. One reason? Federal benefits, such as the Survivor Benefit Plan (SBP), often accrue to both military member and spouse. Disentangling SBP after divorce adds a layer of complexity to a Virginia divorce. What is ...

By |October 9th, 2019|

Solid Strategies for Surviving Family Feuds During Divorce

Which lasts longer, the anger you feel during a contentious divorce, or the damage done to your family? When laid out in stark terms, the price of a family feud during a divorce becomes clear: your future relationships with children, extended family, and the mother of your children. The Unintentional Injury to Children of Divorce The American Association for Marriage ...

By |October 2nd, 2019|

What Can I Do When My Child Refuses Visitation?

The words are deliberately menacing: "... authority to punish as contempt of court any willful failure of a party to comply with the provisions of the order ..." Virginia Code does not cut parents any slack in court orders, even when the subject is the fickle heart of a tween or teen. What could happen to you if your child ...

By |September 30th, 2019|

How Does SGLI Work in the Event of Divorce?

Men in military life get their fill of acronyms. You have everything from AAAA, the Army Aviation Association of America, to USAJFKSWCS DFac (you'll have to wait until the end to find out about that one). In between, you have an important acronym, SGLI, which stands for Servicemembers Group Life Insurance. Why SGLI? Virginia courts may compel a servicemember (male or ...

By |September 25th, 2019|
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