Child Custody

How Does Custody Work in Virginia If There’s No Court Order?

You and your child's mother decide to part ways. What becomes of your child? Without a court order, you would think you are adrift, unmoored to any child custody laws in Virginia, free to do as you please. Perhaps you and the child's mother would think you can do what you wish, since you never took the matter to a Virginia ...

By |September 23rd, 2019|

The Progression of Custody Law in Virginia and Across the US

Colonial Williamsburg is a Virginia treasure. It portrays life in colonial America just before America's revolution against England.  A visitor can sit as a juror in the courthouse, stand in the House of Burgesses, or amble through the Governor's Palace. Fortunately for everyone today, visitors to Colonial Williamsburg are not burdened by the laws of 1770 America. Our laws, including child custody ...

By |August 21st, 2019|

Good, Bad & Ugly: Failed (and Enacted) Family Law Bills in 2018

Last calendar year brought a fresh crop of bills, new ideas, and some actual laws to the books in Virginia. As we have previously for 2017, here we present some of the winners and losers of the past legislative year. Losing Family Law Bills in 2018 We start with losers so we can finish feeling positive. Legal losers are not necessarily ...

By |August 12th, 2019|

How Divorce, Spousal Support, and Child Support Affect VA Benefits

Under the Uniformed Services Former Spouses’ Protection Act, and as affirmed by a recent Supreme Court decision, Veterans Affairs (VA) disability benefits (separate from retirement income) are not subject to divisibility in a divorce. That is only one third of the question, however. Property division is not spousal support. Spousal support is not child support. Divorce & VA Benefits A ...

By |August 7th, 2019|

4 Big Reasons Why No One Really Wins a Custody Battle

Sometimes we see the whole of humanity in a small, sad corner of our lives. Veronica Youngblood1, the Fairfax County woman accused of murdering her own children, was in the midst of a custody battle following a bitter divorce. Nothing glamorous, valiant, or worthy can come of this sad woman's future. We sincerely hope no custody battle results in so tragic ...

By |July 29th, 2019|

What is a Child Custody Evaluation in Virginia?

Adults have the exam dream so often, its shorthand is recognizable with just those words: “the exam dream.” In the exam dream, you wake to find you are back in high school and confronting a final exam for which you are completely unprepared. Maybe the subject is astrophysics, or calculus, or ... perhaps it is a child custody evaluation, and it's ...

By |June 3rd, 2019|

Should My Wife and I Stay Together for the Kids?

blink-182's song, Stay Together For The Kids, rose to #7 on the punk charts in its debut year, 2001. The video is searing and disturbing, mirroring the emotional peril kids in divorcing families feel as a wrecking ball destroys their home even as the band sings on. The lyrics speak of a child's helplessness watching parents who, “Rather than fix the ...

By |May 27th, 2019|

6 Priceless Parenting Plan Tips

Most locals around Virginia Beach get asked the same question by visitors: "Do you have any insider tips on how to have a good time in Virginia Beach?" We offer the usual ideas: visit Sandbridge for a quiet beach visit; try Catch 31; shop on Atlantic Avenue. Sometimes, though, we get a much more serious question: "Do you have any ...

By |May 20th, 2019|

Does Parental Alienation Influence Custody Decisions?

Let's say you have a hankering for some Whitner's Barbeque, and you suggest it for lunch to your Virginia Beach office mates. Everybody's eager until that one coworker pipes up with, "I'm a vegetarian. I don't know how you can eat that stuff. Don't you know it's bad for your heart? I hear the cat population all along Lynnhaven Parkway is way ...

By |May 13th, 2019|
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