Divorce

How Does a Separation Agreement Work? Do I Need One?

Whereas Virginia law allows divorce, it does so under two basic constructs: “fault grounds,” and “no fault grounds,” as established by Code of Virginia Title 20 Chapter 6 Subsection 20-911. Notice how we started with that fancy whereas, which the state of Virginia buys wholesale, by the pound, because it sprinkles the word profusely throughout its various documents and decrees. If ...

By |February 22nd, 2017|

7 Valuable Life Lessons Your Children Can Learn From Divorce

You may read this entry’s title and immediately think of a stream of ungenerous ideas. Something along the lines of, “My kids can learn firsthand what a cheap, lying, no-good, rotten, low-life, snake-licking, dirt-eating, overstuffed, ignorant, blood-sucking, brainless, hopeless, heartless, bug-eyed, worm-headed their mother is.” (With apologies and acknowledgements to the brilliant screenwriting of John Hughes1 in National Lampoon’s Christmas ...

By |February 20th, 2017|

Can I Get Divorced Without Going to Court?

To speak plainly, the main reason Virginians want to avoid going to court to get a divorce is because of the cost. We get that; we realize attorneys’ time and court fees can add up. The great state of Virginia gets it, too, and provides plenty of free or low-cost advice. Please notice, though, every site, every document and every ...

By |February 13th, 2017|

6 Critical Questions to Ask Before Hiring a Men’s Divorce Lawyer

The decision to file for divorce certainly wasn't an easy one.  With so many considerations such as child custody, legal fees, court fees, documentation, etc., it stands to reason that you would take time to vet any potential attorney who may represent you in a court of law.  While this may seem like a simple choice, there are several things you ...

By |February 8th, 2017|

Stigmata Piñata: Beating the Stigma of Divorce

Bearing the stigmata of divorce—the social wounds, the odd looks, the strange pity taken on you by near strangers—may have you feeling like a birthday-worn piñata, but you can beat this (we mean, conquer it; perhaps "beat" was not the best word choice). We can help you find ways to turn those stigmata into charismata (personal charms). People > Institutions Our ...

By |February 1st, 2017|

Divorce & Taxes: Smart Tax Time Tips for Men

Everybody says only two things in life are certain; the ol’ D and T. But for some Virginia men, these are not Death and Taxes, but Divorce and … Taxes. Spoiler alert: it’s always taxes. Surprisingly, these two life events can be intertwined, and savvy divorced men can benefit from a few smart tax tips. Dollars for Divorce You should ...

By |January 23rd, 2017|

6 BS Facts About Divorce Everyone Thinks Are True

In recent months we’ve heard a lot about living in a “post-fact” America. False news, internet rumor and urban legends have run through our conversations and tainted our understanding of real events. This is also true with Virginia divorces. These six “facts” about divorce in Virginia are often confused with the truth; they are anything but. 1. Children Strengthen a ...

By |January 18th, 2017|

Is Virginia a “Fault” Divorce State?

Roger Federer double-faulted twice in a row at Wimbledon1 July 2016, losing his semifinal match to Milos Raonic. That’s about as much fault as any person should have to endure, but in Virginia, you can go through a “fault” divorce, which basically exposes a litany of unpleasant behaviors in open court. Virginia, like the majority of other states, allows “fault” divorces, ...

By |January 13th, 2017|
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