Children & Parenting

What is a Typical Holiday Custody Schedule in Virginia?

Virginia is a typical American state, if you consider “typical” to include, according to Only In Your State1, the world's longest boardwalk (Virginia Beach), the world's record for being struck by lightning, and the world's biggest mandolin jam. Virginia is typically atypical, as are Virginia's Moms and Dads. Working out holiday custody schedules can start with “typical” and lead to ...

By |October 23rd, 2019|

Can Child Support Be Waived in Virginia?

The Gettysburg Address is 272 powerful words. Declaration of Independence? 1,337 words, without the 56 signers' autographs (1,458 with them). Our title for this piece? A scant seven words, but oh, so complex an issue! So many possible answers! Two Ways to Order Child Support In Virginia, child support is determined one of two ways: You and the child's mother ...

By |October 21st, 2019|

4 Great Ways to Let Your Children Know You’re Proud of Them

We marvel that the list has only eight items, but website We Have Kids lists eight warning signs that you are a bad parent. You'd expect things like neglecting or abusing your kid, sure. But some are surprising, like "irresponsible financial behavior." We have personally witnessed hundreds of examples of bad parenting, often from visiting tourists on our Virginia Beach boardwalk. ...

By |October 14th, 2019|

Solid Strategies for Surviving Family Feuds During Divorce

Which lasts longer, the anger you feel during a contentious divorce, or the damage done to your family? When laid out in stark terms, the price of a family feud during a divorce becomes clear: your future relationships with children, extended family, and the mother of your children. The Unintentional Injury to Children of Divorce The American Association for Marriage ...

By |October 2nd, 2019|

What Can I Do When My Child Refuses Visitation?

The words are deliberately menacing: "... authority to punish as contempt of court any willful failure of a party to comply with the provisions of the order ..." Virginia Code does not cut parents any slack in court orders, even when the subject is the fickle heart of a tween or teen. What could happen to you if your child ...

By |September 30th, 2019|

How Does Custody Work in Virginia If There’s No Court Order?

You and your child's mother decide to part ways. What becomes of your child? Without a court order, you would think you are adrift, unmoored to any child custody laws in Virginia, free to do as you please. Perhaps you and the child's mother would think you can do what you wish, since you never took the matter to a Virginia ...

By |September 23rd, 2019|

How to Become a 24/7 Dad in 5 Simple Steps

The 1950s and 1960s model of fatherhood usually meant a Virginia man left home early each morning, returned home in late afternoon, and expected to relax with the evening newspaper without so much as a peep from his kids. Mom was expected to feed, clothe, bathe and supervise them. Dad was the disciplinarian, but every parent knows that hand can ...

By |September 16th, 2019|

Contesting Adoption in Virginia: The Ins and Outs

The Centers for Disease Control tells us that, in 2017, 34.6 percent of Virginia's births were to unmarried mothers. The Old Dominion ranks 39th for births to unmarried mothers1. Sometimes, those single Virginia mothers feel compelled to place their children up for adoption. Some Virginia men choose to step up and take responsibility for the children they sired, by contesting ...

By |September 4th, 2019|
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