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About Jason E Swango

Jason Swango is the founder of The Firm For Men, a Virginia family law firm serving the men of Virginia for nearly 20 years. Hailing from Terre Haute, Indiana, Jason is a resident of Virginia Beach where he and his wife have raised their six children. Jason is an impassioned leader and fierce advocate.

What is a Pendente Lite Hearing? What Should I Know?

Divorce is rarely a straightforward process, and the legal proceedings can often feel like they drag on indefinitely. When you’re eager to move on with your life, waiting for court decisions and navigating legal complexities can be frustrating. However, in the meantime, you’ll need to address pressing concerns like financial responsibilities, living arrangements, and childcare. A Pendente Lite hearing is ...

By |April 7th, 2025|

Can Men Get Alimony in Virginia?

Spousal support, commonly known as alimony, is a financial payment made by one spouse to the other during or after divorce proceedings. In Virginia, spousal support aims to prevent financial hardship for the lower-earning spouse. While it is more common for women to receive support, gender does not determine eligibility. Virginia law allows either spouse to request financial support to ...

By |March 31st, 2025|

What’s a Parenting Plan & Do I Need One in Virginia?

Divorce can be a complex and emotionally taxing process, especially when children are involved. One of the most critical aspects of a divorce involving children is determining custody, visitation, and financial responsibilities. A parenting plan serves as a structured agreement between parents, helping to provide stability and reduce potential conflicts. Whether created mutually by both parents or mandated by a ...

By |March 24th, 2025|

Should You Start Dating Before Your Divorce is Final?

Television star Ashton Kutcher ended his marriage with film star Demi Moore in November 2013. Just three months later, he announced his engagement to Mila Kunis. Was this quick work, or was there potential overlap? Kutcher filed for divorce on December 21, 2012, giving him 11 months to navigate his new reality. Whether it was wise for him to pursue ...

By |March 17th, 2025|

Understanding Military Divorce: Key Differences Every Service Member Should Know

Divorce is never easy, but when one or both spouses are members of the military, the process becomes even more complex. While the fundamental legal framework for divorce—such as property division, child custody, and spousal support—still applies, military divorces involve additional rules, protections, and unique considerations that can significantly affect the outcome. Whether you’re stationed stateside or deployed overseas, understanding ...

By |March 10th, 2025|

Custody and Citizenship: Children Born to Government & Military Abroad

“Travel,” Mark Twain said, “is fatal to prejudice, bigotry, and narrow-mindedness.” If you or  your spouse were fortunate enough to be stationed abroad on an American military base or U.S. government installation, you got an opportunity very few Americans and Virginians get. You two were free to explore foreign countries, sample exotic foods, and perhaps fall under the romantic spell ...

By |March 3rd, 2025|

Dollars & Sense: 7 Smart Ways to Save Money on a Divorce

Researchers estimate that 40-50% of first marriages will end in divorce, and successive marriages have even less chance of survival. Divorce can be an emotionally and financially draining experience. While some marriages can be salvaged, there are times when divorce is the only viable option. The financial burden of divorce can be overwhelming, but with careful planning and informed decision-making, you ...

By |February 24th, 2025|

Military Family Care Plans and Custody in Virginia

The Magna Carta gave our founding fathers the phrase, “law of the land.” Virginia’s own James Madison apparently added the U.S. Constitution’s Article 6 flourish, “supreme law of the land.” That Supremacy Clause sets the hierarchy for all legal issues, including Virginia Circuit Court child custody orders and military Family Care Plans (FCPs). Jump to a Section Supremacy Rules What ...

By |February 17th, 2025|

Using The Grey Rock Method During Divorce and Beyond

Divorce and separation can be a whirlwind of emotions, difficult conversations, and potential conflict. For many men navigating this challenging journey, the emotional and psychological toll of dealing with an ex-partner can be devastating—especially when children are involved. Whether it’s seemingly constant drama, manipulation, or just plain hostile communication, dealing with your ex can be one of the hardest parts ...

By |February 10th, 2025|
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