Divorce & Family Law Articles, Tips & More for Men

What is Abandonment? Can I Be Accused of It?

Would you ever leave your children in a locked car in a parking lot, alone? Probably not. Would you ever go to a nightclub with your wife, but leave without her? Probably not. Final question: would you ever walk out the door, saying you were running to the store for milk and would be back in 20 minutes, only to ...

By |October 2nd, 2017|

When is it Safe to introduce my Girlfriend to My Kids?

Two black holes collided more than a billion years ago, but the gravitational waves generated by the event did not reach earth until September 14, 2015. You might think such a monumental meeting would be a booming, mysterious — even frightening — sound. Not so. It is a cartoon sound effect1, reminiscent of a slide whistle. The collision of your ...

By |September 27th, 2017|

5 Things You Should Know About Property Disputes during a Divorce

Few students of literature these days can easily recall Robert Frost’s Mending Wall1, but it begins with the famous “Something there is that doesn’t love a wall,” and ends with the ironic and eloquent, “Good fences make good neighbors.” Property disputes in divorce remind us of the sad irony and wistful despondency of Frost’s poem. The blithe neighbor in the ...

By |September 25th, 2017|

What Does the Judge Consider in a Virginia Custody Battle?

Virginia, sadly, has been the site of many battles throughout our nation’s history. From the 1610 Anglo-Powhatan Wars through the Revolutionary and Civil Wars, our mighty state has seen a lot of clashes. It troubles us as attorneys that conflicts over child custody are routinely described as “battles.” A Virginia judge may, in fact, gauge your merit in a custody dispute based on ...

By |September 22nd, 2017|

Is Virginia an Equitable Distribution State?

The short answer to this question is a rounding "yes," but understanding equitable distribution, what it is, and how it's divided is a topic all to itself.  Equitable distribution doesn't mean splitting property right down the middle, but focuses instead on splitting property as fairly as possible.  And while this certainly sounds encouraging, the reality behind a court deciding who ...

By |September 20th, 2017|

4 Habits of Highly Effective Single Parents

Without a doubt, being a single parent is one of the hardest jobs around. Not only do you have to be the financial provider holding down a regular job or two – but you must also provide emotional support for your children on a daily basis. The most successful single parents—mothers and fathers alike—develop strategies that allow them to accomplish ...

By |September 18th, 2017|

What Is Legal Custody of a Child, Exactly?

A popular riddle of decades ago recently resurfaced, in which a father and son are injured in a car accident; Dad is out of commission, and the son is wheeled into the operating room. The surgeon takes a look and says, “I can’t operate on my own son.” Decades ago, this riddle1 turned on the radical thought that the surgeon ...

By |September 13th, 2017|

Establishing a Date of Separation in Virginia

Mark your calendars now: July 28, 2061 will be the perihelion of Halley’s Comet. No, don’t scratch your head; it’s when Halley’s Comet returns; its perihelion is the comet’s closest approach to the sun. Science is a marvel: we can know to the day when an important astronomical event like Halley’s Comet will be on us. Law is sometimes a ...

By |September 11th, 2017|
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