Divorce & Family Law Articles, Tips & More for Men

Legal Marijuana Use in Virginia: Implications for Child Custody Cases

Having a bad day? Here’s an “At least I’m not that guy” moment: Richard DeLisi served more than 31 years of a 90-year sentence for nonviolent cannabis convictions. Virginia’s marijuana laws are evolving quickly. How can they affect your Virginia child custody case in a family law matter? Jump to a Section Virginia Marijuana Laws and Child Custody: What You ...

By |October 6th, 2025|

Invaluable Tips for Coparenting with a Narcissist

Most of the law lives in Latin, a dead language. The word “narcissism,” though, comes from the Greek word narkissos, which comes from narkē, meaning numbness. That is an apt origin for a trait that makes narcissists and their victims numb to most of the joys of life. Perhaps you married a narcissist, divorced, and now have to coparent with ...

By |September 29th, 2025|

Your Spouse’s Double Life: Protecting Yourself in a Virginia Divorce

An amphibian leads a double life. That’s literally what the word means: amphi (Greek for “both”) and bios (Greek for “life”). A double life is ideal for frogs, salamanders, toads, and caecilians but is wildly inappropriate for a spouse. How can you shield yourself from the consequences of discovering your spouse leads a double life? And how does your spouse’s ...

By |September 24th, 2025|

Is Representing Men Only in Family Law Against The Law?

Family law cases are often emotionally charged, involving life-changing decisions about divorce, child custody, spousal support, and more. At The Firm For Men, we focus solely on protecting the rights of men and fathers across Hampton Roads, including Virginia Beach, Norfolk, Chesapeake, Hampton, and Newport News. Our mission is simple: to ensure that men receive fair treatment in Virginia’s family ...

By |September 1st, 2025|

Can a Parent Refuse Visitation if Child Support Isn’t Paid in Virginia?

Short Answer: No. In Virginia, child support and visitation are two separate legal matters. A parent cannot legally deny court-ordered visitation because the other parent has fallen behind on child support. Jump to a Section The Reality of Unpaid Child Support in Virginia Child Support vs. Visitation: Two Separate Legal Issues What If You're Behind on Child Support? The Harm ...

By |June 16th, 2025|

5 Key Lessons for Creating the Perfect Summer Custody Schedule

Crafting a summer custody schedule after divorce doesn’t have to be a battle. But just like calculating leap years — which happen every four years except when a centurial year isn’t divisible by 400 — child custody arrangements come with nuanced rules that require clarity and cooperation. Whether you’re navigating your first post-divorce summer or fine-tuning an existing plan, here ...

By |June 9th, 2025|

Can I Get a Virginia Divorce if I Can’t Find My Wife?

When you exchanged vows with your wife, the thought of divorce was likely the furthest thing from your mind. Love, by its nature, makes us hopeful, not cautious. And while no one plans for their marriage to end, the reality is that many couples in Virginia eventually part ways. In fact, while Virginia proudly calls itself a “state for lovers,” ...

By |June 2nd, 2025|

Is My Ex-wife Entitled to My VA Disability?

If you’re a veteran navigating the complexities of divorce, you may wonder: Is my ex-wife entitled to my VA disability benefits? Whether you receive benefits from the U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs (VA) or live in Virginia (VA), the intersection of family law and veterans' benefits can be confusing. Let’s clarify this important question: Can your ex-spouse claim a portion ...

By |May 26th, 2025|

4 Powerful Tips to Be an Amazing Dad After Divorce

Divorce isn’t easy—especially when you’re trying to be a great dad through it all. The emotional weight, legal stress, and major life adjustments can leave you feeling overwhelmed. But here’s the truth: no matter what happens between you and your ex, your kids still need you—and they need the best version of you. Being a divorced dad isn’t about perfection—it’s ...

By |May 19th, 2025|
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