If you’re separated in Virginia and trying to move toward divorce, you’ve probably heard a rumor that sounds half-legal and half-myth: “If you sleep together, the separation clock resets.” It sounds dramatic. It sounds unfair. And it sounds exactly like something that could derail months of careful planning. So what’s the truth? In Virginia, separation is not just about sleeping ...
Divorce is rarely pleasant, but it becomes especially exhausting when one spouse refuses to move forward. Many Virginia men come into our office frustrated and drained, asking the same question: “Can she really keep this going forever?” The answer is no. Your spouse may slow the process, create inconvenience, and increase costs, but she cannot legally prevent a divorce from ...
Divorce is not always a mutual decision. Many Virginia men reach a point where the marriage is clearly over for them, yet their spouse refuses to accept that reality. This can leave you feeling trapped—emotionally exhausted, legally confused, and unsure whether you can move forward at all. Fortunately, Virginia family law does not allow one spouse to hold the other ...
Divorce does not appear on your credit report—but the financial consequences surrounding separation often do. Joint accounts, marital debt, missed payments, and even financial abuse can quietly destroy a once-strong credit score. For Virginia men navigating divorce, understanding how and why credit damage happens is essential to protecting long-term financial stability. Jump to a Section Understanding Credit Scores and FICO ...
After a long and exhausting Virginia separation or divorce, many men naturally feel ready to reenter the dating world. Wanting companionship is healthy and normal — but in Virginia, dating before your divorce is finalized can lead to real legal consequences, including accusations of adultery, challenges to custody, and complications in spousal support or property division. Even after divorce, dating ...
One of the first questions Virginia men ask when facing separation or divorce is simple but important: how long is this going to take? Virginia divorce law follows strict timelines that depend on separation requirements, whether children are involved, and whether the divorce is contested or uncontested. Understanding these rules can help you plan financially, emotionally, and legally. Jump to ...
The only two certainties in life are death and taxes — and divorce makes both feel a little too real. Taxation in America dates back to Abraham Lincoln’s Revenue Act of 1862, and since then, Virginians have been navigating ever-changing IRS rules. When you're going through a separation or divorce, tax season becomes even more confusing. Your filing status, deductions, ...
Most Virginia men entering a separation or divorce expect emotional strain, custody disputes, and difficult conversations. But many are blindsided by something far more mundane — the mortgage. The marital home is usually a couple’s most valuable asset and biggest debt, and what happens to that mortgage during separation can shape your financial future for years. Responsible mortgage separation means ...
Financial abuse is one of the most overlooked forms of domestic violence — especially among men. Many husbands do not realize they are being victimized until their finances, autonomy, and confidence have been stripped away piece by piece. In Virginia divorces, economic abuse shows up frequently, often intertwined with emotional manipulation and coercive control. Understanding how financial abuse works is ...