Kids repeat everything. Everything. You mutter something sharp about your ex on Tuesday, and by Thursday your child is quoting it to a teacher, a counselor, or — worst of all — someone connected to your case, like a guardian ad litem. In Virginia family court, what feels like “just venting” can quickly become a child custody issue. Virginia judges ...
If you’re separated in Virginia and trying to move toward divorce, you’ve probably heard a rumor that sounds half-legal and half-myth: “If you sleep together, the separation clock resets.” It sounds dramatic. It sounds unfair. And it sounds exactly like something that could derail months of careful planning. So what’s the truth? In Virginia, separation is not just about sleeping ...
Young giraffes do not fit in car seats. Relocating giraffes is complicated business. But despite what you might think, giraffes are rarely the ones charged with contempt of court. Recently, however, a Virginia case involving the seizure and transport of giraffes — yes, actual giraffes — resulted in contempt charges against two zoo owners. The giraffes were innocent bystanders. The ...
Divorce is rarely pleasant, but it becomes especially exhausting when one spouse refuses to move forward. Many Virginia men come into our office frustrated and drained, asking the same question: “Can she really keep this going forever?” The answer is no. Your spouse may slow the process, create inconvenience, and increase costs, but she cannot legally prevent a divorce from ...
In the late 18th century, Georges-Louis Leclerc, Comte de Buffon famously criticized the New World — including Virginia — as a land of weak and inferior life. Thomas Jefferson responded forcefully in Notes on the State of Virginia, cataloging example after example of strength, adaptability, and resilience. That historical debate turns out to be surprisingly relevant today, because Virginia courts ...
Divorce is not always a mutual decision. Many Virginia men reach a point where the marriage is clearly over for them, yet their spouse refuses to accept that reality. This can leave you feeling trapped—emotionally exhausted, legally confused, and unsure whether you can move forward at all. Fortunately, Virginia family law does not allow one spouse to hold the other ...
18.2-49.1 does not equal 30.9. Mathematically, it does. Legally, in Virginia family law, it absolutely does not. Virginia Code § 18.2-49.1 is your primary statutory weapon when your ex-spouse decides that a judge’s custody or visitation order is optional. It isn’t. And the General Assembly made sure of that. When a court grants you visitation with your children, that right ...
When parents divorce or separate in Virginia, few questions are more important—or more emotionally charged—than child custody. Fathers often hear the terms joint custody and shared custody used interchangeably, but under Virginia law, they mean very different things. Understanding those differences is essential if you want to protect your parental rights, preserve meaningful time with your children, and avoid costly ...
Divorce does not appear on your credit report—but the financial consequences surrounding separation often do. Joint accounts, marital debt, missed payments, and even financial abuse can quietly destroy a once-strong credit score. For Virginia men navigating divorce, understanding how and why credit damage happens is essential to protecting long-term financial stability. Jump to a Section Understanding Credit Scores and FICO ...