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About Jason E Swango

Jason Swango is the founder of The Firm For Men, a Virginia family law firm serving the men of Virginia for nearly 20 years. Hailing from Terre Haute, Indiana, Jason is a resident of Virginia Beach where he and his wife have raised their six children. Jason is an impassioned leader and fierce advocate.

Your Spouse’s Double Life: Protecting Yourself in a Virginia Divorce

An amphibian leads a double life. That’s literally what the word means: amphi (Greek for “both”) and bios (Greek for “life”). A double life is ideal for frogs, salamanders, toads, and caecilians but is wildly inappropriate for a spouse. How can you shield yourself from the consequences of discovering your spouse leads a double life? And how does your spouse’s ...

By |September 24th, 2025|

Is Representing Men Only in Family Law Against The Law?

Family law cases are often emotionally charged, involving life-changing decisions about divorce, child custody, spousal support, and more. At The Firm For Men, we focus solely on protecting the rights of men and fathers across Hampton Roads, including Virginia Beach, Norfolk, Chesapeake, Hampton, and Newport News. Our mission is simple: to ensure that men receive fair treatment in Virginia’s family ...

By |September 1st, 2025|

Can a Parent Refuse Visitation if Child Support Isn’t Paid in Virginia?

Short Answer: No. In Virginia, child support and visitation are two separate legal matters. A parent cannot legally deny court-ordered visitation because the other parent has fallen behind on child support. Jump to a Section The Reality of Unpaid Child Support in Virginia Child Support vs. Visitation: Two Separate Legal Issues What If You're Behind on Child Support? The Harm ...

By |June 16th, 2025|

5 Key Lessons for Creating the Perfect Summer Custody Schedule

Crafting a summer custody schedule after divorce doesn’t have to be a battle. But just like calculating leap years — which happen every four years except when a centurial year isn’t divisible by 400 — child custody arrangements come with nuanced rules that require clarity and cooperation. Whether you’re navigating your first post-divorce summer or fine-tuning an existing plan, here ...

By |June 9th, 2025|

Can I Get a Virginia Divorce if I Can’t Find My Wife?

When you exchanged vows with your wife, the thought of divorce was likely the furthest thing from your mind. Love, by its nature, makes us hopeful, not cautious. And while no one plans for their marriage to end, the reality is that many couples in Virginia eventually part ways. In fact, while Virginia proudly calls itself a “state for lovers,” ...

By |June 2nd, 2025|

Is My Ex-wife Entitled to My VA Disability?

If you’re a veteran navigating the complexities of divorce, you may wonder: Is my ex-wife entitled to my VA disability benefits? Whether you receive benefits from the U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs (VA) or live in Virginia (VA), the intersection of family law and veterans' benefits can be confusing. Let’s clarify this important question: Can your ex-spouse claim a portion ...

By |May 26th, 2025|

4 Powerful Tips to Be an Amazing Dad After Divorce

Divorce isn’t easy—especially when you’re trying to be a great dad through it all. The emotional weight, legal stress, and major life adjustments can leave you feeling overwhelmed. But here’s the truth: no matter what happens between you and your ex, your kids still need you—and they need the best version of you. Being a divorced dad isn’t about perfection—it’s ...

By |May 19th, 2025|

8 Key Principals for Talking to Your Kids About Separation & Divorce

In today’s media, fathers are often portrayed as awkward or clueless when it comes to emotionally charged conversations with their children. While those caricatures might draw laughs on screen, real-life parenting requires much more nuance—especially when it comes to talking about separation and divorce. No matter your role—dad, mom, co-parent, or guardian—navigating a breakup while supporting your children is one ...

By |May 12th, 2025|

How to Save Big on Your Virginia Divorce: Smart Legal Strategies That Work

Divorce is emotionally taxing—and it can also be financially draining. But if you’re preparing for divorce in Virginia, there’s good news: you can cut your legal costs significantly without sacrificing the quality of your outcome. Before we dive in, let’s bust one common myth: DIY divorce kits and “free” forms often cost more in the long run. Virginia has unique ...

By |May 5th, 2025|
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